I got bitten by a snake!

Would you believe it…….I got bitten by a snake! A snake got into the three tier flash fella mouse house. After the snake’s mouse dinner (ate nine mice) it couldn’t then get out!!!!!! Big brave Megan came to the rescue. I retrieved the snake from the mouse house and am now sporting a snake bite among my list of high achievements. I really amaze myself sometimes!!!!

This reminded me of a story around codependency and how codependents do some really silly things some times.

A man found a snake. Although it was frozen, he recognised it as a poisonous snake. He picked the poor thing up and took it home to revive it. He placed the snake in front of the fire to thaw. Once thawed, he bent down to give it a nice little saucer of milk. The snake lifted its head and bit the good man.

As the man lay dying he asked the snake, “How could you do this to me after all I have done for you?”

As the snake slid out the door, it turned to the good man and said, “Stop your whinging. You knew I was a poisonous snake when you picked me up. What else did you expect me to do?!”  (Respect, Aug 1996)

If you are wondering why you do silly things, especially in relationships with those who bite you, then you may like to have a read of this short article on codependency.

In the interests of child safety, your own relationship with your adult partner needs to be healthy and a replica of what you want for your own child. Do you need to perhaps do some work on your relationship for the sake of your children’s future? Have a read of this: Co and Counter Dependent Relationships – Which one will your child choose?

And….DO NOT PICK UP SNAKES. They will always bite because that is what they are instinctively programmed to do.

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Creative Life blogging for secret Santa, the Little Dun Pony

Aspiring writer and serious blogger, Julie at the Little Dun Pony is one of our secret Santas that merrily spread the Christmas spirit ALL YEAR LONG. Like Lady Godiva she rides her pony through the blogosphere streets, baring her soul and love of justice, throwing goodwill and generosity to the small business website she plays secret Santa to.

Julie is a long supporter of child protection (remember white balloon day, Sept 7) and in building responsible and sustainable communities. She jumped at the chance to support small business websites through a year round secret Santa system because the mission, to match and support small business websites and blogs to encourage the Christmas spirit of goodwill, generosity, altruism and giving to last ALL YEAR long,  fits with her own value system of paying it forward and community protecting community.

Comfortable with creating social capital, Julie is a terrific secret Santa and approaches her weekly small business website support tasks with the zest and passion of kids waking up on Christmas morning.

Thanks for caring, Julie, and thanks for all you do to encourage others to raise blogs: especially aspiring writers. A writer without a blog is like a writer without an imagination. Writer’s need blogs nowadays to assist them to get published and sell their writing. Publishers prefer writers with blogs.

If you have a blog, or a small business website, you are welcome to join our year long secret Santa system. Increase your traffic threefold and open yourself to the encouragement and support (and little gifts from time to tome) of other bloggers and small business website owners.

Join our fun and guaranteed traffic and custom increasing system now. You will get someone like Julie who cares enough about you to enact reciprocal and random acts of website kindness, all year long.

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Child Abduction Alert in Mareeba

QLD Police Issue Child Abduction Alert in Mareeba area: The Queensland Police Service is seeking urgent public assistance to help locate a 15-year-old boy and an 11-year-old girl who may be at risk after being taken from Mareeba around 8pm last evening.

From cairns.com.au (accessed 30.7.10):

Two children abducted in Mareeba

Melanie Petrinec, Friday, July 30, 2010, © The Cairns Post

QUEENSLAND Police Service are seeking urgent public assistance to help locate two children abducted from Mareeba around 8pm yesterday.

A 15-year-old boy and an 11-year-old girl may be at risk after being taken from Mareeba about 8pm Thursday night, police say.

Simon “Sam” Elmas, 57, is believed to be travelling in a 1996 grey Volvo sedan with 15-year-old Kai Elmas and 11-year-old Romany Elmas.

He is described as Mediterranean in appearance, approximately 183cm tall with a medium build and short, greying brown hair.

The boy is of a similar height and also Mediterranean in appearance with a fair complexion, short brown hair and brown eyes.

The girl is described as having a fair complexion, 130cm tall with long brown hair, brown eyes and a proportionate build.

The car is a 1996 grey Volvo sedan with Queensland registration 461 DHS.

Anyone with information is urged not to approach the vehicle or the man, and phone Triple Zero immediately.

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Protective Behaviour training in Cairns

Author of the BITSS model of Protective Behaviours and Bitss of Caramel Marmalade on Toast, Megan Bayliss, facilitates a one day, not to be missed, training for professionals and parents: BITSS of Protective Behaviours in Cairns, 24th May 2010.

Learn how to keep your children safe through play and repetition of five simple personal safety concepts: Body Ownership, Intuition, Touch, Say No and Support Networks.

Professional or parent, this practical workshop is packed with play ideas and skills to assist you in keeping your kids safe from predators. You will learn how to use everyday items, items your children are surrounded by, to embed safety messages and prompts for seeking help.

No Go Tell, Stranger Danger, Personal Safety; what ever you call it, the BITSS model of Protective Behaviours is clear, easy and replicable in your own home.

Escape the creeping winter chills and visit Cairns to learn how to keep kids safe. Register NOW before there are no places left at Cominos House: BITSS Registration package

BITSS of Protective Behaviours is a play program designed by Megan Bayliss from Imaginif.

Visiting Cairns for the BITSS training with Megan Bayliss?
Stay the weekend before. Book through FNQ Apartments for fantastic booking assistance and local knowledge. Let Brenda know you are coming to one of Megan’s trainings at Cominos House. She will get you the best possible deal at a venue close to the training room.

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Octomumus Protectus: a short story for Mother’s Day

Pregnant woman and child compliments of Sepi at SXC

In every geographic reach of our planet, an ancient and predatory species has juggled its way through evolution. Often hunted for its ability to become domesticated, the Octomumus Protectus is discerning, fertile in its choice of partner, and focused on its rearing of offspring.

Appearing in a variety of shapes and colours, this adaptive, now domestic animal, shares some common traits wherever found.

  • It is always female.
  • It chooses to mate with a competing species that has poor understanding of Octomumus culture.
  • It has eight arms, two only visible to other animals but all visible to its sister Protectus’.

The eight arms of Octomumus Protectus are used for juggling the different factors peculiar to its chosen environment. However, interbreeding within domestic spheres has forced Octomumus to remain vigilant and open to new ways of juggling adaptation.

Octomumus has long protected its young from sun, water, poison, road and farm dangers. The protective nature and adaptive survival of this animal is a force to reckon with. In 2006, Octomumus was filmed in the practice of a novel behaviour as they adapted to an environment where baby Protectus are more likely to be harmed in their den than in the greater environment. Renewing its juggling ability to include personal safety on its list of “will do’s” almost every Octomumus on the planet has begun to hold their arms open to juggle the five protective factors of domestic safety: Body ownership, Intuition, Touch, Say no, and Support network. Fiercely protective of its young, the eight arms reach out and join with other Octomumus worldwide. The joined hands form a protective ring around planet earth and give a message of evolutionary hope. The Octomumus refuses to be separated from its kind and its common language of protection screams out to competing species in a warning against hurting the young.

By touching the hands of its sisters world wide, a process of contact osmosis transfers personal safety knowledge from one to the other. Each Octomumus then retreats to her lair and hand feeds the acquired change behaviours to her offspring. This novel behaviour has resulted in an increase of self-reports of harm from deep within the dens that the competing species drag Octomumus off to. The increased reporting has allowed us to undertake Octomumus research previously unequaled. These studies will ultimately protect the survival of this amazing animal and her beloved offspring

  1. Octomumus Protectus: global name, mum, mom, mother, mummy, mumsie.
  2. Habitat:  Adapts well to any habitat and found worldwide.
  3. Diet: Can go without hot food for an amazing amount of time. Ensures offspring are well fed fed and generally brings home the prize catches for them.
  4. Needs:  A little understanding, laughter, love and companionship.
  5. Enemy:  Any other species (or even other Octomumus) who endanger the safety of Octomumus Protectus offspring.
  6. Prowess: Unequaled in the animal kingdom. Octomumus will hunt down and destroy any who breach the sanctity of the five novel behaviours being steeped into daily routine: Body ownership, Intuition, Touch, Say no, Support network.
  7. Viewing: Can be seen juggling any day of the week and anywhere you choose to wander. Neither stillness nor activity inhibits the Octomumus from juggling.
  8. Colour: Varies – black, white, yellow, brown, caramel or pink.
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