Success, Wealth and Love, I’m afraid

January 28, 2009 by Megan · 1 Comment 

What I’m about to tell you will make you afraid. Probably very afraid.But more importantly it has the potential of making you a bucket load of money.

Listen carefully: A woman living in down town Ontario, Canada came out of her house and saw 3 old men with long white beards sitting in her front yard.

She did not recognise them.

She said “I don’t think I know you, but you must be hungry. Please come in and have something to eat.”

“Is the man of the house home?” they asked.

“No”, she replied. “He’s out.”

“Then we cannot come in”, they replied.

In the evening when her husband came home, she told him what had happened.

“Go tell them I am home and invite them in!

The woman went out and invited the men in.

“We do not go into a house together,” they replied.

“Why is that?” she asked.

One of the old men explained: “His name is Wealth,” he said pointing to one of his friends, and said pointing to another one, “He is Success, and I am Love.” Then he added, “Now go in and discuss with your husband which one of us you want in your home.”

The woman went in and told her husband what was said.

Her husband was overjoyed. “How nice!! he said. “Since that’s the case, let’s invite Wealth. Let him come and fill our home with wealth!”

His wife disagreed. “My dear, why don’t we invite Success?”

Their daughter was listening from the other corner of the house. She jumped in with her own suggestion: “Would it not be better to invite Love? Our home will then be filled with love!”

“Let us heed our daughter’s advice,” said the husband to his wife.

“Go out and invite Love to be our guest.”

The woman went out and asked the 3 old men, “Which one of you is Love? Please come in and be our guest.”

Love got up and started walking toward the house. The other 2 also got up and followed him. Surprised, the lady asked Wealth and Success: “I only invited Love, why are you coming in?”

The old men replied together: “If you had invited Wealth or Success, the other two of us would’ve stayed out, but since you invited Love, wherever he goes, we go with him. Wherever there is Love, there is also Wealth and Success!”

I heard that story from an amazing friend of mine, Bob Proctor. He went on and told me this: “Most people don’t have wealth or success in their lives and that’s probably because they don’t know how to love. Whether you want just wealth, success or love in your life… I can help you achieve it.”

I believe in Bob Proctor 100%. He has helped me achieve great success in life, and he can help you too. But there’s one condition…

You’ve got to give him 6 minutes of your life everyday till the day he helps you achieve your goals. Is that a deal? Okay, then as a first step, go to this website right now.

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January 27, 2009 by Megan · Leave a Comment 

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Bob Proctor (The Secret) is a bit of a hero of mine. I’m doing this because I want to make as much money and freedom as possible this year. Who wants to join me? Sign up now. Leave me a comment when you sign up so that we can work together.

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Building rapport with people

January 27, 2009 by Megan · 2 Comments 

Megan Bayliss, listening to what you have to sayIt is a sad fact that many people do not care about other people. Worse than that even is that the people who do care and want to do something to help others, often do not know how to approach people and start a conversation.

Oh my goodness! Where have our people skills disappeared to!?

I used to teach part time at University. I taught Professional Development and Interpersonal skills to Social Work students. I loved it because the students taught me a lot…the students taught me that interacting respectfully with people is definitely a skill that everyone can learn.

Do you know how to strike up a conversation with someone? Do you know how to approach them, make them feel comfortable enough to talk with you and do you know how to respond to what ever they might say? This is the process of building rapport and it can be learnt…but only if you are interested in being a decent human being!

We are living in troubled times and many people want someone to talk to. What these people really want is someone to listen to them.  Are you a listener? Listening is hard…the reason we have two ears and only one mouth is because it is twice as hard to listen than it is to talk. But…you may never reach the honour of listening to somebody’s story (and it is an honour – listening to the intimate details of a person’s life is akin to that person trusting you with their family heirloom) until you first build instant rapport and let the person know you are a listener.

Building rapport is easy. Building rapport is about taking a guess at what might make the other person feel comfortable or good. I often comment on the cashier’s hair when I am at the check out. “Love your hair,” I will offer from nowhere. “Thanks,” they might reply without looking up at me and smiling. A persistent beast, I continue until I get that smile and know that rapport has been established and my random act of kindness for the day achieved. “That colour is delicious. Did that cost you a fortune at a hair dresser?” Eye contact and a smile achieved, I know I have helped the cashier change from her boring, “I can’t wait to go home” thoughts to more positive thoughts of, “I look good…somebody noticed…somebody didn’t complain for once”.

Thinking positively changes lives. Feeling positive is a side effect of thinking positively. Feeling positive changes the universe! I’m all for building a little rapport and helping to make them feel positive, recognised or listened to.

Dare you to try it. Bet you haven’t got the gumption to make another person’s day.

Here’s some short articles that may help you build rapport and become a better listener (listening is not just done with our ears you know…to listen effectively you will use all your senses: your eyes, your smell, your thoughts and your emotional intelligence – your intuition).

How to listen
You are what you feel
 Fishing for feelings
Emotional Intelligence and feeling words
10 steps to counselling children
Feeling FacesHow Does Your Inner Child Feel Today?
Feeling Words

Recommendation for the best self development product I have used: I sure wish I had access to the Beyond Freedom course when I was teaching Social Work subjects at University. It is very, very good and I would have ensured that my students had copies of some of the exercises. I thoroughly recommend this 90- day study at home self development course for those who are prepared to change their life and the life of those around them. It is the best I have ever seen.

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Australians all let us rejoice. Really?

January 26, 2009 by Megan · 3 Comments 

Australia is made up of white Australians and black australians.Australia Day. Today. A day that Australia rejoices and values all that which is great about our wonderful country.

But what about Indigenous Australia? What about their social issues? Where is their celebration and voice of rejoice today? We do not celebrate those ‘black’ social issues because the state of Aboriginal Australia  is our national disgrace.

White Australia has provided many disservices to black Australia. But, each of us has a choice: to either continue in those disservices or to do something different, something empowering, inclusive and non discriminatory. I am today choosing to debunk the urban myths that I too frequently hear about Aboriginal people being lazy, criminal, drunken, ungratefu, child and partner abusing bludgers.

I choose to address Indigenous Australian issues as though they are my neighbours issues: something that requires my assistance. Regardless of colour or socio ecomimic status, every person in Australia has the right to live a life of our high Aussie standards. My neighbours live as I do, why should not the thousands of Australian Aboriginal children living in poverty across Australia.

Tonight, the Imaginif household is having an international dinner. We have visitors from India, Sweden, Germany and Australia.  Each person is contributing a food from their home land. As hostess, I will be addressing some previously domestic raised comments about Aboriginal people: Are Aboriginal people bad? Do Aboriginals get money from the Government just because they are black? Do all Aboriginals have sex with children?

Aboriginal people are far from bad. Aboriginal people are just like you and I and our white societies: some good, some not so good. Australian Aboriginal people had their land warred from them, their culture almost destroyed and their social rules of contact/non contact disrespected. Is it any wonder they have become a group of people struggling to again find themselves and their place in a predominately white country that has grown into a magnificent global jewel with a coveted lifestyle.

Australia is the lucky country, so c’mon, giveemabreak will ya. Australia Day is about ALL Australians. Let’s rejoice our rainbow of colours and cultures….after all the true Australia is Aboriginal Australia.

Congratulations to Australian of the Year: an Aboriginal man, Mick Dodson

Check out these amazing Aboriginal rock paintings: End of term excerscusion: Aboriginal Culture. We visited Laura as a home school experience and attended the Dance Festival  (a display of Aboriginal and Torres Strait Island cultures).

Picture is of my son and my “black” brother, Aboriginal artist, Joseph McIvor.

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Business systems

January 23, 2009 by Megan · Leave a Comment 

Mema with 1 hr old Amelie, her first grand child.Life is about systems: birth through to death, life span follows a system that occurs regardless of race, culture, gender or location. The way we eat, sleep, play, work, etc, usually follows a system.

I have a system of getting my daily visualisations, affirmations and goal visions completed. I have a system of getting my housework done. I have a system of getting my shopping done (as quickly as possible!). I have a system of watching my grand daughter (pictured with me straight after her birth) grow (actually I want to steal her and keep her with me always :) )

Most importantly, I have a system of getting my business done. A simple system that anyone can follow, duplicate and earn excellent money from (no matter where you live in the world*).

Recession proof,  personally empowering and one of the fastest growing trends in the world (self development), my business can also be your business. I choose to work with motivated and serious people only: people who want to improve their own life AND give back to the community.

Child protection is my area of passion. After almost 20 years working in the area, being disappointed with change and very low wages for the hours I put in, I was tired, burnt out and wanted to escape the community sector. A personal crisis led to me researching new jobs. Accidentally I stumbled upon a business opportunity. Curious, I looked. Happy and refreshed I now am AND I can give back to my passion area (child protection) because I want to, because I can afford to and because I get more joy from volunteering than I did from working for money in my area of expertise and passion.

All I did was to follow a business system and surround myself with other business owners from the most amazing and empowering home based industry I have ever experienced. I invite you to change your life by discovering a new system that can change every single part of your life and potentially bring you enormous income, beyond your wildest dreams.

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