Blog on Cairns cos it’s the end of winter

August 31, 2008 by Megan · 5 Comments 

Cairns with storms brewingWelcome to the end of winter inaugural, stand alone, Blog On Cairns. This carnival is open only to Cairns bloggers and I expect to see it grow, grow, grow up a monsoon as your family, friends and colleagues become inoculated against the threat of a life without blogging :)

Until people start submitting their own posts, posts will appear alphabetically.  And so we away….

  • Andrew Griffiths: Join Andrew over at his now redesigned blog and web spot. Colourful and bold (the blog, not Andrew), his posts reveal the international gateway that Cairns offers. Whether, home, interstate or abroad, Andrew’s post are always interesting and worth the time to read. In Stop beating yourself up when you make a mistake, Andrew places a monetary value on learning from mistakes, rather than staying in a deficit mood where we beat ourselves up. An interesting and solution oriented slant I can confidently say that I have spent a fortune on my education!
  • Balloon with Hot Air: Has not posted since December of 2007. I may as well delete them from the list?????
  • Berry Baby: I recently bought a part time package of these amazing and environmentally friendly nappies for my new grand baby (yes, I am a six week old Grandma :) ).
  • Big Little Sister: Oh no. Melody and her little family have finally provided an Answer to Melody’s many hints of the recent past. They are leaving paradise to go to the capital of the Emirates, Abu Dhabi, the richest city in the world. Melody I look forward to keeping up with your adventures through your blog.
  • Birdwing Therapies: Are the kids doing your head in? Guess what? Tantrums are normal for Toddlers. Both a colleague and a personal friend, Keran was lulled into blogging as a platform for advertising and marketing by, moi. Now a true convert, Keran blogs around the issues she deals with in therapy.
  • Cairns Blog.net: What’s your view on saving the Yacht Club building? Mike, from Cairns Blog is always one to ensure the voice of Cairns people is heard, particularly around civic issues. In Garrett wants new information to save Yachtie, Mike gives the labour politicians some of the new information they seek:
      – how about another 10,000 locals that have said they want to keep this piece of our community history where it is;
      - another highrise, that only for those who can afford a million-dollar apartment, is not welcome in Cairns;
      - that such a small parcel of land can and should be gifted to the community for the people, would be a gracious move by the Government;
      - that it is, and has been for over 100 years, a famous music and entertainment venue serving two World Wars, countless local weddings and the creation of many local musos;
      - the will of the majority of the community is to retain this building and all that it represents as we change and grow our population; The Yachtie is on the register of the National Estate, the National Trust’s list of endangered places and its Queensland register.
  • Cairns Unlimited: Do you all yet know of the Jump on – Jump off Cairns tourist bus? What a great idea. Has anyone done it yet? I aim to but just cannot seem to get a free afternoon where I can taste the new service (and of course then I will blog a review on it). Thanks for blogging this Stave and Maria. Your blog is a terrific service to Cairns and to tourism so please do keep it all up.
  • Have camera will travel: When I grow up I want to be like Paul Dymond. I read his posts and try to emulate his techniques: Paul is brilliant….I am sad :( However, I owe Paul a big thank you. In Some more blogs for the weekend, Paul high lights some of his favourite photography blogs. Guess what I’ll be doing this afternoon. It seems a waste to me that we live in Paradise and do not take the opportunity to photograph it to use on our blogs. I reckon citizen photography is a great way to marked Cairns through the blogosphere.

They have given insight into the immense human struggle to reach an individual’s top form. They have given courage and inspiration to those who witnessed that struggle against the odds. They have brought peace and co-operation between countries unheard of through diplomatic or political process. They have shown us how to win with courage… and how to lose with grace.

    Ever eloquent, do yourself a favour and read Jean. Her writing is as moving as her paintings are. Jean, I reckon you should blog raffle one of your paintings as a blog traffic enticer. More people need to have the pleasure of reading you.

  • Kaj Haffenden: Kaj has not posted since the beginning of June: How to create a strong password.
  • Knowledge Solutions: It seems that Luke has been Linked Out prior to being Linked in again to active group management: Linkedin or more like Linkedout. Linked In is a social networking site for business people and corporate bloggers. A very useful tool for those seriously using Wed 2.0 applications, Luke’s frustration at some “uncollaborative” management changes resulted in being contacted and assured that:

our desire is definitely to enhance the functionality for LinkedIn Groups.

    Good for you Luke. Thanks for taking up the challenge and keeping Web 2.0 fair. Luke is flirting with a blog platform change to a wordpress theme. Do it Luke: wordpress is fantastic. The options for customising your blog are endless.

  • Nicky Jurd: Nicky has not posted since June 25: Mobile Generation
  • nunyaa: The flying nun of the north. In Please Explain, Nunyaa reminds us of Pauline Hanson and lets us all know that Pauline is after a bloke. Any takers amongst you fine gents?

Shine YOUR light on 3 positives of the last time something didn’t happen as you hoped it would.

A psychologist who uses her blog to educate and assist her online students, Char always has a myriad of topics for you to consume. Perhaps we should get Andrew Griffiths and Char to do a post together. In the two posts presented via them, they are saying a similar thing.

  • Spasmodic Dysphonia: Sue has been overseas, moved house and had an exhibition in Atherton. Never home to change her internet details, Sue is promising to get back to blogging soon. She has not posted since April!
  • Suspekt: How old do I feel?! Young Jesse contacted me through Digg recently. I went to add him to my facebook account and lo and behold, there is my son’s name in his friend’s list. It seems they went to school together. If you like music and going out in Cairns, then you need to follow Jesse’s blog.
  • Teddy Tour: The virtual Teddy Tour gives victims of child abuse a world wide voice. No matter where they live, they can send in an anoynomous story tag to be photographed on a teddy before going on a tour around the blogosphere. Not only does Cairns have exceptionally high reported rates of sexual assault, we also have a lot of survivors move here because of all that Cairns offers: Solemn in Cairns. Where did my childhood go?

That’s it from Blog On Cairns for this week. Be sure to submit your posts for next weekends Carnival (the quicker you submit, the higher up the list your post will be (= more chance of additional hits and readers). Please visit each other and get to know who blogs about what in Cairns. Let me know of other bloggers I can add to the Cairns list. Link to each other, link to this carnival. Linking raises indexing and increases circulation. Similarly, consider hosting this carnival one weekend…you may well be amazed at how many hits it gets! Leaving comments is also a simple customer service tool that you can all use as a way to grow relationships with potential new readers. Imagine your trip around the blogosphere as a real life networking function: talk to people and they talk back to you. Begin by leaving a comment here and posting about Blog On Cairns.

Happy last day of winter. See you along the Esplanade walk and at Festival Cairns.

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Teddies on Tour for child abuse

August 29, 2008 by Megan · Leave a Comment 

Choco, first abused at age 8 by mother’s boyfriendThe Teddy Tour: Giving victims a voice. A virtual tour where survivors of child abuse and sexual violence can send in an anonymous story tag for a teddy to wear in a tour around the blogosphere. If you have ever been sexually assaulted, be you male or female, then we want your anonymous story.

Fill in your story tag here.

Together we can break the silence around sexual assault and keep our children safe.

See the pictured teddy’s story: Choco, age 8, grew up not afraid to speak

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Calling Cairns Bloggers

August 28, 2008 by Megan · 3 Comments 

Fun in the sun in CairnsCarnival of Australia has tightened its niche and has changed to Blog On Cairns. If you are a Cairns (Far North Queensland, Australia) blogger then you can submit your blog posts to the updated Blog On Cairns.

Blog On Cairns will run weekly. Your posts are due by Friday evening at 11pm for publishing at Imaginif sometime over the weekend. Imaginif enjoys a google page rank of 4/10, has a decent quantity of traffic and is on the two top 100 Australian bloggers lists. We invite you to create your own blog leverage off our success.

Carnivals create traffic and new readers for you. Try it. Submit your individual blog posts here. Another way to increase traffic to your blog is to join Entrecard and start dropping your calling cards at other Entrecard member blogs. Most bloggers reciprocate your visit. It is a wonderful way to informally become an ambassador for the beautiful place in which we get to blog :) You might like to also familiarise yourself with fellow Cairns bloggers and leave them a supportive comment. Blogging is contagious – are you going to help spread it in Cairns?

Here’s a list of Cairns (and immediate surrounds) bloggers. If you know of any others please let me know so that I can link to them.

 Links improve blogosphere ranking and circulation. Be a mate and link to your fellow Cairns bloggers.

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View from my window prevents burnout

August 28, 2008 by Megan · 4 Comments 

The view through the sliding glass doors of my office.In a supervision session, I asked my young supervisee when she last had a mental health day (a day off, a day to herself). She was able to answer immediately and added that her agency endorsed regular mental health days as a prevention against burn out. Congratulations to that agency and to that worker.

Front line social service workers and those who deal with ongoing trauma (Nurses, paramedics, police, etc)  face risk of burn out. Scheduled debriefing time, external supervision and having a life outside of work are critical burn out prevention tools.

Pondering my own burn out prevention strategies, I reflected on what feeds my soul. In the many blogs I visit daily, I am particularly drawn to the photos and photo blogs (I love this one, this one and this one). Like a voyeur and a typical social researcher, I love to see how others live (aka I love to see that others have kitchens like my messy one :) ) , what catches their eye for a digital click, and what the world I haven’t visited looks like. Once a regular and passionate traveller I am now conscious of saving for my retirement and of the environmental hazards of travel.

Blogs and the photos contained on them help to fill my need for knowledge, motionless travel and relaxation. I drool over some photo blogs and dream of the day I can spend more time with the camera in my hand.

Then the camera hit me fair in the frontal lobe!!!!! Duhhhhhh, the only thing that stops me from pursuing a part time affair with my camera is me!!! I like photography and I need a new hobby to force me out of office mode. Office…..I looked out of my door and instantly felt relaxed. My view is part of my debriefing, my reflective self supervision and my life in tropical Far North Queensland.

Apart from my passion for keeping kids safe, this is what keeps me mentally healthy, what I see every time I  look out of my sliding glass doors:

The view through the sliding glass doors of my office.

Life is good and I am grateful for having a beautiful spot in which to live while undertaking difficult child protection work.

Vow to self: I will learn how to become a better photographer and take a picture a day as practice, self reflection and  relaxation. Goodness only knows, I’m surrounded by the best so surely I can learn from them.

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Stranger Danger, No, Go, Tell, BITSS of stopping child abuse

August 27, 2008 by Megan · 4 Comments 

This man was a stranger, and a pedaphile. He looks just like a next door neighbour.An unknown man in a white van stalks school children in our area: School Perv Alert.  A stranger to many, he is known to someone and his predatory behaviours will not have occurred in isolation. There will have been other signs throughout his development that warned of a developing predator. Who left it this long to recognise his behaviour?

We did: all of us. We continue to teach our children the outdated stranger danger and fail to recognise the danger within our own back yards.

 Stranger danger lessons at Edmonton schools have been stepped up and teachers have also been put on alert.

Bronwyn Cummings, Wednesday, August 27, 2008, © The Cairns Post

Predators, stalkers and child abusers, look just like us. They do not wear a flashing sign that says, “Beware” or a black coat and hat that magically makes them look like a stranger. They are everywhere, are often not strangers, and their predatory and grooming behaviours begin long before they start stalking our kids. Somebody sees the development of these bad behaviours and keeps their mouth shut hoping that things will get better all on there own. Somebody is wrong.

Eighty five percent of child sexual abuse is perpetrated by somebody well known to the child. Stranger Danger lessons are of no use to these children. It is possible that for those children, their perpetrators are those same perpetrators that were strangers and abused the other fifteen percent. They weren’t always a stranger though. Somebody knew about them but failed to warn other people.

Speaking up against and stopping child abuse is paramount. It is everybody’s responsibility. A quick Stranger Danger talk every now and then at school is helpful and may help raise awareness but, alone, it does not keep kids safe.

Teach your children No, Go, Tell, Protective Behaviours, the BITSS model, Personal Safety, what ever word you want to call protection. Teach them today and every day.  Here’s a free ebook, Parent Sense, to help you on your way to having discussions and playing safety games:

BITSS of Protective Behaviours

Use some

Parent Sense

Protecting children starts at home.
It is your responsibility as much as it is the education system and Police.

Further reading: How sex predators groom

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